A Day With 5-6 Girls In A Bus

 

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A day with 5-6 girls in a bus who sells bangles, they have so many boxes in which they keep their selling material that is bangles. When they enter into the bus I was already sitting there. The moment when one of the girl came next to my seat and sit there I start making faces because those girls wore pretty dirty dresses and looks were extremely ugly. Maybe I couldn’t see their inner beauty as well as I didn’t see their outer beauty which was hidden from dust and poverty.

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They were gossiping with each other like they don’t care what’s happening to their around. A conductor was asking for fare to them in a very harsh way, I was thinking who the hell he is, talking so rude? Just because they work and sell bangles? And thinking again about conductor that did I ever talk to you harshly just because you are a conductor? I didn’t. Should I order you like a cruel ruler? I didn’t. Did I ever disrespect you? Again I didn’t, except when you were wrong. Who gives you a right to treat them like the way you treated? He was passing by her again and again and she didn’t say a single word to him. If it was me and he was passing by me I’m sure I didn’t permit him to touch again and again and use the route to reach in males compartment, definitely not.

Anyway, I have ignored all the things and start looking the girls who were talking to each other. Besides all, One girl said to another, Hey, Kajol ( a name of an actress in Bollywood) don’t push me. I was stunned when I heard an actress name from a so poor girl and making fun again on the behalf of that actress name. I asked to them, Have you girls watched a movie of that actress in your entire life? The girl laughed at me and said Yes, we are a fan of her. I said, Wow! It’s Cool, I expected something else like you don’t ever watched a single movie or drama in your whole life. Okay have you watched her movie that is “Kuch Kuch Hota Hai” and they replied, Yes we have watched. They made me astonished with their secret life – a life of poverty and enjoyment.

Then, I started to ask about her life, a girl who was seeing me, fortunately.

Me: So how much have you earned for a day?

She replied: 500 rupees 🙂

Me: Ahan, nice. What’s your husband do?

She: Shoes polish

Me: How much your husband earned?

She: 150 rupees

Me: Umm, Okay. Are you guys satisfied with this lower amount to survive in this society?

She: Yes , By the grace of Almighty God we are satisfied.

Me: Interesting.

And they walked away with their bangles boxes because the bus had been stopped at their stop.

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Moral: My weird behaviour towards ugly people wear dirty dresses. They changed me, I mean my behaviour, my perception regarding them. And I know you couldn’t read it but yes one day you guys will read it or else your children and I love you ladies to change my life, my negative perception behind ugliness. Thanks to you Ladies 🙂 You made my day and I felt peace in my heart somewhere at that day the reason is you ladies and your bangles too 🙂

Talk to strangers,

Change your life,

Be positive.

 

 

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I Am Missing You Happiness

What is happiness? I guess when we get the 1st position? Or when we eat Kulfa and Biryani on the road with best friends? No, I think, When we make laugh to people because of our stupidity? Still, I’m not sure, Perhaps, Have you ever give a compliment to an unknown person that you are cute, Ever? I did :p And the person replied your request has been received by unknown person, Haha, I was not expecting from a person a single reply actually I was expecting some positive reply like Thank you 🙂 You are more beautiful :p Something positive on social media but the people are pretty disappointed with each other that’s what the reason we cannot expect a single positive response from them, Maybe they think that your profile is fake so they never expect a compliment from a beautiful girl or from a handsome boy, I mean seriously, why we guys and girls cannot appreciate other beauty, the natural beauty. Don’t we have guts to encourage them, to make them feel special or to realize them you are the beautiful invention of God in this world? I know there are people in a majority to discourage each other at every step of life. I feel happy to give compliments to people who are known and unknown to me. They will not  give you a response but yes they feel happy from their inner side too. And I’m glad when I make them smile, it’s not society who are making the mentality of social sites users negative, It’s we, our single good step can make anyone smile and smile is a gift by Allah. It’s our natural duty to make them laugh, a good deed you know. Well that’s happiness for me and I didn’t intend to make you bore people :p So yeah I can make so many funny faces and can speak in a funny voice to make you laugh :p It’s just that I want to see you more happy people, NOTHING ELSE. Happiness is when I call you football at your back, Calling someone football is a good thing? It’s not and I know that, but its sound cute 🙂 When I used to watch serials of Son-pari, Shaka laka boom boom, Hatim Tai, Ssshh somebody is there, That is happiness. Snatching a remote control from siblings that’s happiness. Giving a nickname to friends and making fun of their health is happiness. And I really missing you Happiness.

Think for a while,

Spread Happiness,

Have patience,

Be Positive and frank,

Always smile 🙂

 

Utilitarianism

This theory was basically developed by Bentham:

“The greatest happiness of the greatest number of people” according to this theory law be like this “Give happiness to maximum people at a maximum rate” because laws are made for people and people want to get rid of panic situations and live happily thus law fulfills people desires and finishes their dislikes for each other. However, In society contradiction come in desires, thus, it will be good for happiness if we give importance to those who are in the majority. According to this theory, everyone can do anything but with the mutual consent of another. Homosexuality was the result of this theory.

With reference to Austin

Anyway, Austin was a student of Bentham as well as he supports his theory so far. Austin promoted Bentham’s theory of utilitarianism, further, he said that we should focus on utility and happiness in law and for that morality should be separated, which means there is no value for morality, a law should be made according to the wishes of people, that is the reason to accept this theory, because of that morality values got damaged in the eyes of reasonable person of the society.

Further explanation:

Austin promoted Bentham’s concept of utilitarianism in this way:

  1. Law and morality should be separated from each other because morality values can change with emotions or emotional situations but the law cannot change.

In same crimes morality can change our mind to take different decisions,

For example

Case 1

Mr. A took some amount from Mr. B house and Mr. B saved that amount for the medicine of his ill son, and he couldn’t buy the medicines on time, the amount was taken by Mr. A illegally so he will consider as a theft plus as a murderer because of him, Mr. B child had died in hospital. Here Morality says he should be punished for theft and for murder and the punishment must be strict.

Case 2

Mr. C is a quite poor man, his children are hungry so he took some amount from Mr. D house. Here Morality says Mr. C should be punished but the punishment shouldn’t be strict because his intentions were not malice being a father of hungry children and he had no choice at that time to feed his children.Thus, in morality, we cannot find law uniformity which means equality that’s what the reason law should be separated from morality.

2. When Bentham gave the concept of Utilitarianism he rejected the divine law that is God made law but at that time Austin said we cannot reject Divine law completely in Utilitarianism but yes we can use it as a source of law, he further said that we should accept divine law on the basis of some reasons which means how many provisions of divine law in law can provide utility.

3. Austin said that to carry the law, it is necessary to make an authority for making the law and to govern it. He gave the definition of law according to this point and that is:

“Law is the command of the sovereign backed by sanction”

One more reason of Austin concept of Utilitarianism is, it is based on Positivism which means man-made law.

 

 

 

 

Beauty Is In Your Innerself

Calling ugly to whom? You, yourself is ugly, do you know that? Okay fine, you are the prettiest girl I have ever seen and the ugliest heart I have ever felt around me. You know why your heart is that ugly? Because you call ugly to those who has an awesome heart which you cannot see,obviously, because of your ugliest mind and heart. Your beauty will come to end one day. There will be no charm remain on your face, a day comes soon.You will neither be fit nor be beautiful anymore but what about your inner beauty? If your heart is beautiful, no one can defeat you in the race of life as well in the end of your so-called beauty face.

Literally you cannot defeat her if you don’t have a beautiful heart but a beautiful face. Haha, you need a makeup to look beautiful, she needs a smile to look beautiful not for the society for her own self. She smiles to make her inner self more beautiful. She is beautiful because her heart is in peace. Do you have a heart? Is it in peace? No? So you aren’t beautiful anymore for her, for society, for your loved one.

Dear Readers! If you want to look good in front of anyone you have to live happily, Did I say to pretend happily? I said Be happy, instead of jealousy and competition, comparing oneself to another.

The world is in a race and you need a break, a break of peace and happiness. And you will see the consequences in the shape of your inner beauty. Stop impressing people please, live one day for yourself. Skip your makeup for a day and attend any occasion without make-up. Don’t forget, everyone cannot see your fake smile, fake kindness, and fake beauty but people can see your glowing and charming face, a face of peace and happiness.

Trespass

When you are gonna define trespass always remember these ingredients;

  • Consent is the most important feature in trespass, if I have consented I have a right to touch your things, property, and body.
  • In trespass there is no need to prove that the damage has been caused to you (claimant), you just have to prove that the tort has been committed by tortfeasor (a person who commits a tort ) and that is known as Actionable per se.
  • Your act should be direct and physical.
  • Trespass covers freedom of movement, goods and property which means infringement (breach/violation) of your rights.
  • It can further define as locking someone with unlawful reasons, hug them without their consent, punching them.
  • Unwanted physical contact and infringement of rights that is freedom of movement and bodily integrity can constitute for the trespass to the person.

Example: If the defendant throws a bat/stone/brick and it hits you, you can sue him on the basis of trespass to the person.

There are three types of trespass:

  1. Trespass to the property;
  2. Trespass to the goods (things);
  3. Trespass to the person.

 

1. Trespass to the person

There are three types of trespass to the person

  1. False imprisonment
  2. Battery
  3. Assault

Assault:

  1. You are doing something and it gives someone else a reason to think that you are about to attack to use physical violence against them.
  2. Your words and gestures are enough to fall in this category.

Example 1: I’m calling you and my calls are silence, obviously I’m giving you a reasonable cause to think about me that I’m about to appear at your door and can use physical violence against you. You are expecting that I’m about to attack so in this case your ‘Reasonable Expectations’ are enough.

Example 2: If you are in the custody of police and defendant passing you a threat that If police will not around you-I will punch you, you are expecting a physical violence by him to you but your claim will fail in the court because you were not in immediate danger zone neither could expect an immediate physical violence can use against you by him.

Battery:

  • Battery could be defined as the ‘intentional‘,’direct‘application of ‘force
  • Further, you can say your intentions and physical force should be there and it must be direct.
  • You have acted.
  •  For claimant there is no need to prove the damage has been caused, what you need to prove is tort has been committed.

Ingredients:

DIRECT

  • Holding someone without their consent so from that couldn’t able to move can constitute for this category
  • Here you act was direct and physical.

Example 1: You are going to the office and I have stopped your way by holding your hand with a force and bad intention to not permit you for the office.

Here defendant act is physical, direct and intentionally.

Example 2: I have thrown a stone at you when you are just standing in front of me.

here my act is direct and intentionally.

FORCE

  • I, myself have a right to be let alone by others,
  • Unwanted hug and physical contact without their consent.

Example:

You have a pencil and I’m trying to snatch it from your hand with an offensive manner.

INTENTION

  • to claim for this element defendant should be intended to harm you (claimant)

Example:

Claimant kid was playing behind the parking place where the defendant’s car was parked. Defendant didn’t see that the kid was playing behind the car, he unintentionally bumped his car to kid and claimant child got injured. Here you cannot go on the basis of Battery, the defendant was negligent.

FALSE IMPRISONMENT

  • false imprisonment means to prevent someone’s right of movement with unlawful reason,
  • Whether you are locking them in a building or anywhere for a short period.

Example:

There were two doors to go outside from one place, somebody stopped you to do not go from first door and allowed you to go from another door. But you didn’t want to go from there, stayed there by your own wish so you cannot claim for false imprisonment because the second route or door was saved for you.

But you can go to court if there was only one route for you and they have detained you for an unlawful reason.

Note: I’m not a lawyer neither a teacher, being a student of law I have tried my level best to convey my message to you. Your contribution would be appreciated whether positive or negative. Thank you!

 

 

Kill Them With Kindness

“Kill them with kindness” is a phrase which means kill your enemies with kindness. And I know how you are kind towards your enemies, who are you fooling? Yourself ? Or people ? You are pretending to be a very nice person to them but from your mind- you hate them and of course, there is an anger, hatred, bitterness in your head.

I know, you smile in front of people you don’t like. For instance somebody in past said something wrong about you, which you didn’t expect from them but still you talk to them with a cute smile even though there is a loathing that keep knocking your mind to take your revenge the same way they did.

We can take two more examples regarding your fake kindness and one of them is; when you see a beggar around, Yes! You give them money but not because you are kind but because you want to show yourself bigger and better, there is certainly no kind-heartedness in your mind, Is there ? Again NOT.

Second example is, when you order a waiter and he brings the wrong order for you, at that time you behave like a kind person but you are not which means you are controlling your vexation(anger) towards him and if he gives you a chance to rusticate him on the behalf of restaurant owner, you will do it right on the spot in return.

You are not a kind person but yes! You pretend to be bigger and better. When you will start behaving polite to your enemies, you will see a different perspective and another side of their lives. Think for a while, why they are rude to you ? Maybe they have been violated and broken by many people which means the society and their friends of course. I must suggest you to love your opponent. Reply them back with a cute smile but that smile must come from your heart not from your egoistic mind. Don’t misconceive the meaning of this phrase everywhere if you don’t know what it means exactly.

Love your enemies,

Reply them with a smile,

Change the world.

Man Is The Master Of His Fate And The Captain Of His Destiny

A man is the master of his fate and the captain of his destiny, the proverb has rightly said by Nelson Mandela. It is so true that man is the creature of his destiny. He is talented and can achieve anything if he does hard work. You cannot wait for a miracle to happen. You have to struggle to get success. Destiny will not decide your future but your hard work and sincerity in the present can change everything whether it is your future or it was your past. Your struggle in the present can defeat your past maybe your past was the worst one.

Sometimes, you don’t want to take a risk for new challenges because you love your comfort zone, old-places, jobs, habits, attitude even food. Your one single risk leads you to change your destiny. If you cannot change your fate then change your behavior, attitude and most important habits. We do mistakes and put the blame to our destiny. It wasn’t the fault in your stars , the fault was in you, in your hardships, you should not blame destiny for your mistakes and laziness.

However, the moment you puzzled while taking decisions it leads you towards your destruction. To avoid that destruction you should set some goals and stick to them. Nobody can defeat you if you have a good strategy to do your task. Your habits and attitude play a vital role in your life. It is rightly said by someone:

 “If you cannot change your destiny then, change your attitude “

You have the courage to change your life but you don’t want to because failures are coming your way to stop you that is obviously your past. Why don’t you take your failure in an optimistic way and move ahead instead of making your mind pessimistic (a kind of deep negative thinking from years) When you fall, your point of view to see the things and people will change, maybe you start to struggle or stop there. Destiny decides to enter people in your life but its your own choice to choose who stays in your life. Destiny decides to push you towards failures but its your choice to move ahead or stuck in your failure, Yes! its all about your choice.

People die in hospitals, on roads not because of destiny because of their laziness and poverty. We don’t take care of our loved one and wait for miracles to happen, Strange. We are so lazy and confused to take the major important steps of our lives.We should take it serious instead of saying, Oh! he died it was written in his destiny, he failed, it was his destiny, it was not his destiny, it was the result of his previous efforts.

Dear Readers! You are designed for a purpose. You are talented and creative. God has sent you in this world with so many outstanding qualities. It is a time to polish your those qualities. Polish your inner self for God sake. Be bold and courageous when you are taking steps of your life. Don’t be nervous from your past or from your future consequences. No one can dream for yourself, no one can turn your dreams into reality, no one will help you, no one will stand for you, no one encourages you on your failure, no one appreciates you on your success, but yes you can turn your dreams into reality. You can shape your future and present according to your will but you can only do that from your hard work and passion. Its you and yourself only.