The Reason Is You

She hurted, the reason is you,

She failed, the reason is you,

   She broken, the reason is you,

You cannot feel her pain,

Time cannot heal her pain.

She insulted by  people, the reason is you,

She did everything against her rules, the reason is you,

She smiled, the reason is you,

she cried, the reason is you,

She doesn’t trust on people anymore, the reason is you,

You cannot feel her pain,

Time cannot heal her pain.

She is living without feelings,

Her innocence has gone now,

She cannot come back from her past, the reason is you,

She just want to say you, Don’t come back,

She hates you and your fake love, the reason is you,

And only YOU.

And She Moved On

A girl of 18 year old fell in love, Oh! I mean it was an attraction obviously being a teenager, but for her it was a love. She had never looked at any boy in her school, college, on social sites, in real life. The reason is maybe she was finding her so called Prince like in movies -a princess always needs a prince to save her, to love her. She forgot one thing that is she was innocent and didn’t know that there was no love, there was no care, there was no promise, there was only infatuation, there was lust and only lust and she didn’t know that. Great! I’m thinking to clap for her-for her foolishness anyway. I feel sorry for you GIRL once in a blue moon, you were pretty innocent.

Then, they became good friends through texting and calling etc. He never demanded for anything to her and she never expected too. Finally a day came when he proposed to her but she denied and said to him:

My studies are going on, I cannot afford any kind of relationship for now plus I’m still  teenager so my parents will not allow me for this relationship. Please wait for the right time !

He left, and after few months of her exams she came back and proposed to him, He replied:

Sorry you are too late and i’m engaged.

The moment she heard that statement, she was stunned and in a minute left the place without a reply.She messaged to him: why u did this to me ? I promised you, I will back and u said you will wait for me then why u didn’t wait for me ? WHY ? He didn’t reply, she cried a lot for the whole day and night. No body could see her inner pain which she faced because of infatuation to him and called LOVE, ha ha! She fell in depression and started chat and calls through number, social sites etc again. According to you Readers she was so despo, right ? Yes! she was. There was no one to ask from her how’s you feeling now ? There was no one from her family and friends to hug her and says: Everything will be fine relax. 

She involved completely in those activities and didn’t realize her final exams are about to come. She didn’t care so obviously she was blank in her exams and when the result came she failed. She was one of the talented, position holder girl. No one could beaten ( subdue ) her in her class because no body had guts to defeat her.

Her family and friends was blaming to her for not achieving position. There was no one to ask from her calmly why you failed ? Is there any problem ? Being a human we cannot read people mind and heart but yes we can read their faces. Again we ain’t that talented and caring to feel for people and read their faces and ofcourse we don’t have time for bullshits, right ? No body knew that she unrecovered her memory to memorize ( retain ) her lectures of class, to memorize people in her life she met and talked once.

She failed again after an year and faced same comments, reactions from so closed people. However, 3 years passed and she gave her supplementary exams. Later, result came again and she passed. Everyone from her family was happy but not that much when she used to got first position always and she felt that.

She moved on, I know it wasn’t that easy but I can feel it, it wasn’t that difficult too. She started her life again. She struggled a lot and became one of the best daughter, student, friend and the most important-she became the best human being.

She is struggling more and doing hard work to achieve her goals and her reputation in her family and friends, but she doesn’t care and feel for anyone anymore.

Moral:

We should do care our close one instead of involving in weird activities. We should keep an eye on our friends and family and don’t be lazy to ask from them what is going on in their lives. For a while they feel irritation because of your questions and frankness towards them. Remember what you have to do is ASK and HUG them.

Life

Life ..Stuck in thoughts, so many of confusions are here and there about this word. And I really don’t know how to explain it. So many of questions coming in my mind, should I say life is too beautiful? Should I say such a messy life creates always problems for us ? Should I say life is a good teacher for us and a bad student too, a good friend and a bad friend we can consider anything to complete the definition of life. It is said that,

                                 Life is the dream for the wise,  A game for the fool,

                                 A comedy for the rich,  A tragedy for the poor.

As I say always different meanings, different people, and different perceptions are there. For me life is pretty weird, maybe the reason is my comfort zone, maybe the boundaries , maybe people behavior and judgements ( acumen ) and so on.

You and me , earth and sky, soil and water, flowers and roots, birds and animals. Everyone has a life and obviously a lifestyle. We couldn’t find their way of living, the only one who knows their way of living that is God, He gives us a life as a gift according to people, but , according to you; your life is based upon problems, critical situations, awkward moments, comfort zone, restrictions, boundaries, laziness, waiting for others to motivate you, poverty stricken ( poor), sympathy, attentions from those who are better than you, in living standard, in talking style, in every competition. Yes ! That’s your life. How pessimist you are, do you know ? I guess you know well.

I know you suffered a lot in your this life and became a pessimist. I must say if there is a tough time for you so there is another easy time waiting for you, to hug you as like as tough time hugged you.

Life is too beautiful. We don’t want to know the charm of our struggle, the benefit of our struggle, the result, the happiness of our struggle. Life is a beautiful gift maybe you and I don’t know how to live it. Maybe we just know life is all about competitions, fame, power, money and much more. We all are living in an illusion. Life is much more far from these concepts, the concepts which we don’t know or should I say don’t want to know ? haha

Take all the struggles as a challenge and accept it the way it is.There is no short cut in life so be careful when you are gonna take such steps which can lead you anywhere in a wrong way. Be careful, Be bold –  to handle all your problems in a positive way. You know people you can be honest with others if you are honest with yourself first and ready to face every challenge coming up for you. Enjoy the life, the happiness and small worries coming in your way.

Perhaps my words ain’t enough to describe LIFE …YOUR LIFE.

So are you ready to face the challenges and beautiful life ? Say always YES !

Believe In Yourself

People believe in what you believe not in what you do.So many of us believe that God exist , He exist in your heart , He exist because you believe and people start believing in you and say He exist.

Believe in people they will hurt you,

 Believe in God and he will heal you”

-If i talk about business,

You don’t have need to work with those who needs what you have – your goal is to work with those who believe in you , in your capabilities,in your intelligence,in your efforts.

-If i talk about relationships ,

You are afraid of making wrong decisions, a weird reputation, fear to live in the society from that wrong decision.You are afraid of the risk  you haven’t taken yet, right? Take it as an advice ! Lets start to take a RISK ,lets start believing in YOURSELF that your decision was right or else you can make it RIGHT.

-If i talk about people/society,

You can do anything if you believe in yourself.You can achieve your goals if you do believe in what you can- not in what people say about you.I would like to quote here:

“There will be haters,there will be doubters,

  there will be non- believers,and then there will be YOU-proving them wrong”

Always remember no body acts the way you act ,no body has the capability you have, no body thinks the way you think.Keep these factors in your mind and you will go a long way to getting along with  people.

People believe what they have heard about you from others .Don’t be dumb as they are-Be a champ and believe in yourself when no body believes in you.You cannot force people to believe in you-you can show them by your actions and efforts.They will automatically came to know that you are a CHAMP.

Everything happens in this world for a reason-you believe in failure so you came to know success, you believe in lies so you came to know to trust no one, you believe in sadness so you came to know about happiness.

I have learned so many things in which i believe and sometimes not .

Do you believe in yourself ?

 

Silence

A weird,unpredictable feeling or an expression says nothing but express everything.

People cannot read your silence as if they ain’t that talented,as you are.

Silence is the answer of so many  questions.Maybe the questions are stupid,maybe the time isn’t correct to answer them.Silence speaks alot rather than words.

It is a weapon for you to let them know they did wrong.Their words were wrong.It is your strength for the future when they will come to you by themselves.

Silence of the birds which no one can understand , to become the part of their silence -its necessary to stay silent when they are.

The beautiful silence of the sky.

Silence in mountains,books,animals,flowers,birds,death,life,walls-trying to say something to us but we don’t want to understand.We are continuously ignoring the words in silence which is never spoken and listened by us. You will regret what u have said but won’t regret on your silence.

The silence in your writing speaks everything -your feelings, your emotions,your imaginations,your sincerity,your pain,your illusions.

The silence in two buddies when they don’t want to say anything, what can i say ? One of the most comfortable relation.

The silence between you and the sky when you starred and want to say lots of words ?

The silence between you and roads while you are walking and travelling lone.

I would love to stay quiet but that doesn’t mean i have nothing to say ,its just that you aren’t capable to hear  my thoughts.

Waiting For The Bus

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i was waiting for my bus around 10:00 at the bus stop.I came late there ,the bus just passed by me.I gave a sign to driver to stop the bus-stop the bus,he was such a big idiot and didn’t stop. Anyhow I start waiting for the next bus.Seeing the people passing by me and the way they were looking at me it was  like i’m waiting for the bus at the railway station.

The bus had arrived finally and i have picked it ASAP before it again passed by me.I left a lot of disappointed people waiting for the bus at the corner of the bus stop which will never come for them.Sometimes you have to stop yourself for waiting and wasting your time instead of walking forward and achieve your success.There is a particular limit to wait here a quote goes to :

                  Patience isn’t simply the ability to wait its how we behave while we are waiting

It is how we behave while we are waiting ,our patience,our reactions,our replies,our sincerity-everything is linking to wait.So, i was in the bus standing in so many maids or parlor-maids travelling with me.You know everything becomes equal like your behavior,color,gestures,smiling face,gossiping,your standard of living when you travel by public bus.There was no seat to sit there because of crowd and a little compartment for the female and a large compartment for male.

I was staring at people.Everyone is waiting for someone maybe for the bus stop,seeking their destiny.They all are in weird situation and in competition to get the seat first,to reach first,to do the work first.When i saw their worried faces,i was thinking to do something for them by solving their problems-i wish i could.

I got the seat , staring at the road and again thinking about the fast vehicles running on the road along my bus.Everyone is in competition to another in this world.Some of them were travelling by car, rickshaw, chinchi ( another kind of rickshaw), bike,truck.They all are going somewhere to achieve their goals not for their selves but for the family,  for the food-to survive in society.

They travel and  be like the happiest person in the world and forget their worries,sorrow and start sharing the things,seats,smiles with each other.That matters a lot for me when i see them happy in the bus .

Advice: it was a journey,we shouldn’t wait for the bus whole day.We can miss our goals.Wait -but for a while and then start walking forward to get your success.

Reached  college :p

Take care

When Light Comes From WiFi

wifi pic

 

I was just sitting all alone and was thinking about the light comes from WiFi. I know you will like, Oh !she is so free to think about WiFi light seriously ? So,yeah i’m pretty free to think about light rather than you.And its not me just who thinks about it.Everyone is thinking about WiFi light right now :p .

Have you ever noticed your WiFi light always there for you ?  Isn’t strange that light loves you alot more than anything  ?

WiFi light connects you to many people .It seems to me you are in love with WiFi light .Relax i’m not gonna off your light.Have you ever noticed your faith towards WiFi which connects you to your loved one people,topics.stories,videos ?

                                                      Hope sustains the world 

Which means you are in hope always but you never know where it will lead you.Your hope can lead you to reach your destiny and your doubts on this light can lead you to destroy your own life.

Usually you become hamfisted  and destitude  because of this light .You shouldn’t become pevish when you are doing any sort of work through this light.

Most of us are facing one of the situation that is Agrophobia which means the fear of open spaces.The things and words which you canna do or say in your real life ,in open spaces-You start sharing ,watching those things through this light.

Make your life like a gregarious person.Don’t make yourself inhibited and diffident.Why you want to live you life like a quixotic person ? Com’on boys and girls start expressing your words ,feelings,actions ,dreams not through from this light ,through your real inner light which is coming from your heart and hopes that’s what exactly i’m doing nowadays to be honest.

Give light to people ,they will find their way

In the end i would suggest you don’t depend on this light always,be practical and hope for the best whatever you will face or facing right now in your life because of different lights and connections you cant STOP-Start living your life again by being practical.Your life and your hopes in a practical way is like a gold –And a golden key can open all the doors.

Thankyou 🙂

Love

Love is a beautiful feeling which you don’t express to anyone usually.Love has so many meanings according to different people.The world is so big and in this world you will find so many people so you cannot define love in a particular meaning.

Love can be for anyone , it can be for your family,the people you love the most,the things,the places,the wishes.

You will never lie to the person,you love the most.If you are gonna lie to them ,you face a knotty situation and to come out from that situation you have one way and that is say TRUTH to them.Your love for them is mitigate and interminable.

Your father said in his heart:I love you more than yesterday less than tomorrow

Your mother expressed:You broke my heart but i still love you my child

Your siblings:Duh,Ofcourse i love you bit :p

People love:The way they looked at you :p

Things love: You smile when you see your most loving things in front of you and start dancing :p

So the word is beautiful , the feeling is beautiful but we are making it pretty boring and not expressing in front of our loved one.Start expressing your love for your dreams,wishes,family,people.

Spread love when you don’t want to spread it especially.

I love you all,Do you ? No ?

I love you too guys

Thank you for reading 🙂

How Can We Reduce Food Wastage From MEDC ?

food wastge

We don’t know the value of food because we don’t care and if we don’t care how we realize it is hurting others who don’t have resources to get food. It is affecting our environment you know ? O yes you know, but you are ignoring it maybe you have money bank to buy any kind of food.

Your wastage food can fulfill the needs of those who are needy and starving just for the food but again WE DONT CARE – Why we don’t care ? WHY ? I know the reason,

“If the food would as expensive as Zenvo, we would polish it and look after it”

So many of food and fruits aren’t eaten just because of shape and color. A great research on human behavior shows that we avoid that food and fruits which are edible but not looks good. Isn’t it ?

 “You waste life when you waste good food”

A number of people are in chronic hunger  one of the great reason is we are wasting our water to wasted crops and that is the need of 9m people.Your food should be eaten. If you cannot eat food that much-needed, you should decide next time to prevent that wastage of food.

1) Plan

2) Buy less

3) Learn the tricks to put the food at exact place 

4) Bring old food to the front of the fridge and put the new one in back

Use your senses that are smell and sight, don’t focus on expiry dates because it can be changed from packets. Your fruits and vegetables shouldn’t be together because fruits give off a high level of ethylene. Greenhouse gases come from waste food too.

A child dies  every 5 seconds because of hunger ” Do you know? Or don’t want to know?

In the last, I would suggest you love your food, health, environment and people too.

Before you waste your food think about it.

Thank you

 

Child Labor In Pakistan

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In Pakistan around 25 million children are out of school and working as a labor.Those little hands aren’t made to lift the weight, they are to carry the books , to play with toys.Their age is to play with friends not with bricks and machines.

It is not just a social issue as well as an economical issue so its really obvious it is making a difference in our economy.Who will think about it ? WE ..But again WHO CARES ? Yes we think for a while , and after a second we forget what we have to do for those children.

They start earning between the age of 3-14 because a good salary by government is not given to them.Their families aren’t established economically so they can not provide any basic facilities to their children.Our economy is either bad or our heart ?.Lets educate the children by giving them free education.Do you have a time for them ? -Again NO

Ron Swanson said: I got my first job when i was 9.Worked at a sheet metal factory.In two weeks , i was running the floor.Child labor laws are ruining this country.

They are ignored by us,their tears and shouting are ignored by us.Those innocent faces deserve a kind response from us.We don’t want to know what they are expecting from us.We have forgotten our responsibilities towards them.Literally we have forgotten and the reason is we are too stuck in our so called personal life and problems.Apart from these problems we should THINK.

They have a right to get the education,haven’t they ?.They have a right to enjoy their lives.In Pakistan we have so many articles,ordinance,acts and rules.But nobody is implementing these rules,ordinance in a pretty strict way.

One CHILD

One BOOK

One TEACHER

One PEN 

One COPY

Can change the world .

It is a socially accepted crime in BOOKS only , they aren’t our children .So why would WE CARE ? Right ? Please Stop thinking like that.

There is no reason,there is no excuse,Child labor is child abuse

Stop Child Labor

Think about it

Thank you .