I am going to share my views on the topic, what do you think about me? I would love to start from a short story and I hope that you will criticize on it if you disagree with me.
You met me on a social site, you were a stranger to me, you messaged me daily but I didn’t reply. I used to hate to reply to strangers. And a day came my mood was better and I replied very harshly and rudely. You always talked to me in a very sweet way. We became friends, I mean social friends, still I didn’t trust you so much as to add you in my real friendship list. However, you started to send me voice messages but I ignored them. Later, I started to, in fact very soon, call you at night. You made me laughed like I have never laughed. I was thinking about what the relation between you and me was? Do you ever think why we became social friends? As you are aware that social friendship affairs arise in opposite genders, right? Yes, you are aware of that. The way you talked to me it was nice, it was funny. I cannot forget that night. The way you talked to me, your heart and mind was completely pure and I felt that. Your intentions were not wrong and I knew that.
The point is to demonstrate the relations between opposite genders. You, me and others can easily judge two people when they are talking, laughing, sitting or helping each other. The way you people think about opposite genders is totally wrong. I mean it isn’t necessary that the two persons have any kind of bad relationship. There are so many relationships in this world you neither give a good name to them nor bad, because you don’t know exactly what kind of relationship they have, right? But, you give them different titles, oh my god! they are in a relationship. Why he/she added her/him in a friend list? Why are they laughing together? Why are they helping each other? Something is fishy. You pass those comments, right? These relationships are 100% right according to me. He/she maybe think good about each other something, maybe they are the best friends. They are the best strangers who were just trying to make each other laugh, help each other. They never thought something negative about each other then who the hell are you? Who are you? that’s right, you live in a society but they never gave you any right to criticize on their character, on others’ characters. Think about it. Thank you for wasting your precious time here.